دکتر شفالی انقلاب والدین را برانگیخته است. از این زن بیاموزید که همه چیزهایی را که در مورد والدین می دانیم در این قسمت تحول آمیز نظریه تأثیر با تام بیلیو به چالش بکشد.
نقل قول ها
"زیبایی زندگی این است که هیچ خطی در سنگ وجود ندارد ، بیشتر آن در ماسه است." [9:38]
"زندگی این رقص جاودانه بین دانستن و ندانستن است. بین تملک و عدم تملک کامل. بین انجام دادن و انجام ندادن. "[9:45]
"درد بزرگترین معلم است." [20:30]
"این خودشیفتگی است که فکر کنیم وقتی خودمان را بزرگ نکرده ایم می توانیم موجود دیگری را پرورش دهیم." [41:54]
"وقتی هر کاری را دنبال می کنید ، این بدان معنی است که قبلاً آن را ندارید. بنابراین وقتی چیزی در حال حاضر ندارید ، دچار کمبود هستید. شما نمی توانید فراوانی را از کمبود دنبال کنید. [47:17]
نشان می دهد
تام و دکتر شفالی به معنای فرزندپروری آگاهانه شیرجه می زنند. [2:31]
دکتر شفالی توضیح می دهد که چگونه شرط رشد کودک را تحت تأثیر قرار می دهد. [5:14]
دکتر شفالی در مورد درک مرزها و روانشناسی والدین صحبت می کند. [9:17]
دکتر شفالی توضیح می دهد که والدین چگونه فرزندان را مرتکب می شوند و باعث ایجاد احساس غلط از خود می شوند. [15:20]
دکتر شفالی در مورد بهبودی از حقیقت خود و اجازه دادن به فرزندانمان صحبت می کند. [17:00]
دکتر شفالی در لحظه کنونی زندگی خود را گسترش می دهد و به طور عمیقی با فرزندتان در ارتباط است. [21:31]
تام و دکتر شفالی درباره یادگیری حضور و چگونگی پذیرش و کار با آنچه که دارند صحبت می کنند. [24:17]
دکتر شفالی در مورد چگونگی کشف اصالت از طریق مراقبه بینش به اشتراک می گذارد. [31:12]
دکتر شفالی اکنون قدرت پذیرش نامطلوب را تجزیه می کند. [34:39]
تام و دکتر شفالی افسانه های والدین و تفاوت بین دلبستگی و عشق زیاد را بیان می کنند. [35:41]
دکتر شفالی از اهمیت آگاهی در مورد محدودیتهای ما برخوردار است. [39:12]
دکتر شفالی به تعالی زندگی و چگونگی تعامل و تراز با لحظه می پردازد. [43:43]
دکتر شفالی فاش می کند که چرا خوشبختی یک نادرست است و دنبال شادی یک دام است. [47:17]
دکتر شفالی تأثیراتی را که می خواهد بر جهان داشته باشد تعریف می کند. [49:32]
ذکر شده در این قسمت
کتابها
خانواده بیدار: انقلابی در فرزندپروری – [1:54]
قدرت اکنون: راهنمایی برای روشنگری معنوی – [44:08]
مردم
اکهارت تول – [44:00]
دنبال کردن DR. شفالی
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لطفاً تماشا کنید: "چگونه خود را در برابر درد ایمنی کنیم | دیوید گوگینز در نظریه تأثیر"
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How do you get rid of child marriages, genital mutilation and child labor and child molestation. This are familial/cultural belief for some children out there. No psychology can ever solve this problems with children
Children’s are to be nurtured not tortured.
So what she saying is let your kids whatever they want when they want?🤷🏻♀️🤔🤔
I LOVE THIS WOMAN!
WHAT IS SHE SAYING?! I CAN LOVE!!!!
Needed this.Thanks!
I like and learn from Dr Shefali's talk, but she is extreme on few things.
OMG! Amazing! Wow!
She's hot
5 minutes in and I love it😍🙌 preach it😁🙌 I am trying to be more conscious at parenting to break the cycle, it's hard to know the difference because it's all I have been used to but I guess that is the point in conscious parenting! I can do this for my little girl, we can all do this for our kids! They are here to express themselves and enjoy life just like us.. we are simply here to love, advice, care for and guide them in their path..we need to compromise with them not force them to live in our perception of life💜 we can learn alot from our kids we are just too stubborn to do so💜🙌😍
Loving this woman but im confused about some things. So, if you have a child that says hurtful things to their sibling, what is a conscious parent to do? If you don't punish, what would an alternative be? I am so open to suggestions!
When we understand that we don’t raise children we raise cattle, we can then explore our role as parents. We care and cultivate – but never raise.
With all due respect to this beautiful women, I believe that she is not bringing anything new to the table. This eastern philosophy has been practiced for centuries but just now making its way to the western world.
I read an article by Dr Ben KIm where he gives advice to a mother struggling to cope with her daughter. Her situation was so similar to mine. Dr Ben Kim recommended Dr Shefali saying, "I would encourage you to treat her books as
you would a daily devotional where you consider a passage or two
each morning or evening". I googled her name and came upon your video. I thought no way I am going to sit through 51 minutes. I did and I am so glad. Halfway through I was crying and related to so much of what Dr Shefali was saying. I may be a parent but there is still a child hurting inside waiting to be heard. I need to hear that child and heal myself before imposing. My daughter is telling me exactly what Dr . Shefali was saying. It's all about me and not her. I am not seeing her, listening to her or being there for her. Thank you for this video. Found nuggets of wisdom and healing….. I understand myself better now.
22:53 … no matter what is it about, children are to be explained. They DO understand. Most parents do the mistake of "thinking" that small children would not understand if we explain.
ALWAYS explain, NEVER force.
This is so true!!! ….I keep telling my parents " we are the way we are mainly because of them" and they dont want to hear it…but me knowing this I defiantly still take on negative traits from them that I'm doing with my child! Its sad but so habitual 😔
I have seen her interview before.. she is amazing😍.. she tells -what not to do.. i wish she said what to do.. i will start fixing myself in the meanwhile but in between we need atleast few tips taking some real life situations as example..
Sometimes we just need to keep our messages simple. For me this was abundance of confusion and overload on parenting, not sure how many parents could relate. All this living in the current, transcendent stuff was bewildering.
As we all know, parenting does not come with a manual. We learn from others, sometimes our mistakes and our own intuition.
I disagree when she said we have our kids for egos as I certainly did not. Also when she said we don’t love our kids, that’s when I thought some of the stuff she is saying is utter hooey. As a divorced single mum, I love my kids unconditionally and no one could tell me otherwise. They love me too. It was ludicrous statement to be honest – I just shared that statement with my daughter – her response “does she have kids, as I don’t know what to say, very odd. She needs a new career”.
My kids are grown up, fabulous, doing great things and I love them deeply. Sometimes we just need to speak with parents who have raised lovely kids, who are respectable citizens been loved and cared for. Speak to me if you need advice, I am not selling a book, nor a psychologist – but a parent who has the education of life, more powerful than anything.
Beautiful. Should be seen by every future parent
Thank you for this great interview! Being a parent is the most wonderful and beautiful "job". We never have to stop learning.
Tao of parenting, the yang into yin of supporting without projecting movies (no stories, just mindful action). The Wu Wei of stepping away recognizing every person has a disposition for a singularity to path to be happy and to achieve sucess 9:40
Brain underdeveloped, attunement and licensing, be present and recognize you don't know what's going on, learn, give the right input and connect (no stories but mindful being) 11:30
Love her.
sometimes drive is survival, definitely in lack of parenting or in bad parenting situations.. many parents are liars, and are going no where use the kid to support them up these kids are driven
They will sleep when they sleep…and if they are too tired in the morning then they will learn from those natural consequences.
Only 6 minutes in and I LOVE her already. She is right on the money with this.
This woman is my new hero. The best spent 50 minutes of my life. Brilliant! This should be a mandatory watch for all parent to be!
Half of the problems start when we realize my child is not my fantasy 😱
I agree with her belief about parents ownership of the souls (minds, wills and emotions) entrusted to them by God to manage. It really is a balancing act between taking responsibility and owning the child. 👏🏼 checkout my book unboxed. There’s a chapter on parenting even though I am now one yet. 😸 hope it helps someone. It’s free on gumroad & smashwords. enjoy
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People need LICENCES for a lot of stuff (to drive a car, to use a computer etc) … but no one is required to get a LICENCE to be a parent, or to have sex etc.
(Rhetorical question): Why?
12:10 Yesss! How about a parenting licence? I'm in 🙂
I created a parenting class. It is Developmental Psychology. It holds knowledge of brain balance and integration. I just need Parents and not sure how to hold this program at hospitals, but it is held at a church. I use the Whole brain child book and workbook book I also focus in on the assessment and through observational interviews to determine epigenetics generational and what kind of attachment there currently in and work on reshaping that. Feelings are not created in isolation so and as perceptions ultimately always change they are the number one issue. Sometimes memories lay dormant and we hold on to them and we try to create them with some else and that maybe with our children. There are common themes we believe we have to uphold, but is definitely a lack of internal character developed because of what kind of bond of perception we had attached with. It takes about two years for somebody and be fully attached to somebody and so this program is only 6 weeks long for about an hour and a half.
I know this video is two years old but this woman is spreading horrible misinformation that will be responsible for a world of self-absorbed narcissists. She sounds very unhappy pretending to be woke. I feel sorry for her child and it is no wonder she never mentions the child’s father. To say that we are not capable of love; only love of self, is the epitome of true narcissism.
The only true purpose and contentedness in life comes from taking responsibility and living for something much bigger than yourself. I would throw myself in front of a train to save my child!
There is nothing like seeing once again through the eyes of a child. When a bug or a butterfly becomes the most interesting thing in the world. If you are lucky, you will get to see through the eyes of your child and your children’s children. There is no higher love possible!
So what if a couple does everything right for a child since birth and the child becomes an adult but definitely did not become the golden child. The child went into the dark side and dies during a shootout with law enforcement because the child believe in non conformity and the theory of sheeple. Do we blame parents still? Because this is happening RIGHT NOW! It takes not just a community to raise a kid but a global effort with electronics and drugs. What’s the point of having kids nowadays?
So many babies are born out of ignorance pleasure child's a lot of parents fail their children no plan to unlock the potential that child has so that person becomes a failure in life bringing another life on this planet while it's against its will is some serious shit
Hey eyes are so hypnotizing
Revolutionary is the right word for her! This reassured me that I'm doing many things right but I also learned so much. Thank you so much for this interview! ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥