34 پاسخ به “چگونه کودکان خود را به گوش دادن و درگیر کردن بپردازید | Kris Prochaska | TEDxBend”

1. It simply boils down to respect for our children

2. Powerful when you know better you do better

3. Wow.good yes. Bad yes. Informative yes wrong yes.no.mybe really think ppl

4. My mom told me minors dont have rights, and that I didnt have rights because I was a minor

5. I gave a thumbs down because I disagree that kids should be related to equally as you would adults. Kids are kids and adults are adults. These are totally different roles in human development. You can do just as much damage by building them up have unrealistic expectations of what they will encounter in this world as adults..

6. Children still need to be guided…and told…… explaining why they have to do as you say is key…. because in the outside world there are positive and negative consequences for whatever we do….and there will come a time when they have to take responsibility and accept or rectify their own decisions…..

7. Every new parent must watch this!

8. I really liked your Nothing Message, Although I am a grandfather now, I will use or I will try to use your Message Thank you.!

9. It's baffling to me, how she confuses equality of value with equality of wisdom, experience, and reason. A professor is equal in value to their students, but he/she is the authority in questions of knowledge, so he should be listened to, and obeyed, and learned from. Your child is not equal to you, and if you treat it like that, it will lack the neccessary guidance and authority to chose the right path to adulthood

10. So this is a pro natural consequences talk. Very cool.

11. Thank you for affirming what I want to be be more like, because I tend to blend both methods, without really knowing best… I have the skills to life coach my child. He is an equal created in the image of God, just like his mother and I.

12. Woow I like it thnks for sharing

13. Even in my 40s, my mother still doesn’t treat me as a person with a voice. I am so cognizant of not doing the same with my 7 year old.

14. Great advice for any type of relationship, wonderful talk.

15. Yeah, teenager, can I do this? Mom, no because of this and that, 5 min, later, teenager with attitude I want to do that, and you won’t let me, Mom I already explained why you can’t do that, then teenager with bigger attitude, that’s not going to happen, you don’t trust me! 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

16. as usual, parents with no ability to self reflect and let go of their egos. all of these parenting TED talks just seem like they should be common sense for me.

17. You definately need to build trust with your child. You need to build communication. There are some interesting thoughts for dads to consider here.

18. Omg 💛 I had a blast 😢🌹🌹🌹👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

19. this holds value because as a kid this made me feel i have value in a way i never even knew i was lacking

20. I grew up being shut off by my parents…they always say i am just kid…now i am a mother and i do otherwise…my kid argue with me but i listen to her, always listen and understand with my heart…because who will listen to her…i love communicating with her…she has a lot of things to talk to me and i love it that way😊😊😊

21. My father was frightened of his mother; I was frightened of my father, and I am damned well going to see to it that my children are frightened of me.

22. I'm a teacher, and this is excellent advice for us too.

23. Thank you. Her voice and guidance has resonated. I luv this speaker now 💛💜💚💙

24. I think that talking and treating kids it depends on kids ' s age

25. Since I was a kid once, I already know that problems are serious no matter who you are and how old you are and same goes for respect. It's very confusing how so many adults don't remember being a kid and then treating their kid as if they're property. I'm glad this video is putting awareness out there

26. <3

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28. Try and negotiate when they are going to bed or your trying to tell then to move because the car is coming. Let us know how that works out. proper authority is not a bad thing in fact it's ingrained in our society. This is why kids don't respect their parents anymore we need to teach our kids to have a healthy reverence.

29. I'm reading all these negative comments about the video and damn all of us adults have so much issues to a point where we'd do anything to be in control lol
    
    if only the world acted more like what's been said in the video, there would be more compassion and love rather than the need and drive to reach a point in life where they can finally be in control….
    this is why you see psychopaths leading companies and governments or ending up killing people if you didn't obey them, and that's our fault as parents because we'd rather teach them that adults are in charge and can be hypocrites and do whatever they want, so when they become adults they think now they have the right and are entitled to do whatever they want, hence you see a lot of problems with kids when they turn 18…
    sigh this world is never going to change, or if it does it's gonna take a couple more centuries for people to finally realise…

30. 👏👏👏👏👏👍👍

31. This is very good!! For both the child that is born and unborn!! This is why abortion is wrong and it is very much murder! Give The voiceless a voice too. Choose life!! Choose life over death!! Unborn babies are still babies and a life, life that is important and equal to.

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33. thank you for stating so clearly and gently how we perpetuate the controlling domination of our parents and how it is not our truth… I've just recently realized what loving my children (16 and 7) truly fully and lovingly can be…. grateful

34. I like the message but the voice and style of speaking was creepy and hard to listen to, sounded like you was going to cry

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