37 پاسخ به “Tamera Studied To Be the Best New Mom, But Aden Wasn’t The Typical Newborn”

  3. my 3rd and last child is 13 and I still have nerves while raising him. its just him in the house and nothing that worked with the older 2 who are adults, works for him. the older kids were in the house together. my last one is the "only child". I love it but hate it for him but im glad its just one now. i am more calmer as a parent in general but i will always be on edge regarding my kids because they are my everything.

  4. It’s definitely not fair for the first child,

    this happened with me, my mother was hrad on me in many ways when i was kid until high school and completely the opposite with my sisters, that effected my relationship with all of them my sisters don’t know me or the kind of mother i had so they took her side of story.

  5. It's not "unfair"; the first born is always the hardest (look at me talking like I've been through it) lol! But, regardless, common sense tells you that, if experiencing something for the first time, your bound to be nervous & do the wrong things. Why? Because, you've never done this! So, of course, dealing with the second child will be easier! Mum's need to stop being so hard on themselves, a child knows you love them by the way you take care of them, in anyway that you can!

  8. Agree with Tam 100%. You learn as you go along so testing might not be the best option. Plus, there are hospitals, clinics etc. that requires you to go to breast feeding classes and other general sessions before having your child and when you have your child. Some hospitals even say that you have to go to one of their sessions before leaving the hospital. Check with you hospital and clinic if you need help.

  11. My one goal is to give them a childhood that they don't have to recover and heal from. As long as they grow up to be happy, kind and self sufficient; whatever that manifests to be, Ill take that as a win.

  12. I have twin boys. I was OVERWHELMED and exhausted. Nothing could have prepared me for how much work that was going to be. But my faith in the God of Abraham got me through it. They are 15, and they are really good boys.

  14. I agree with tam I have a daughter n she is 13 and everyday since she was born I’ve tried to do the best I can n everyday is a learning experience she a teenager now so it’s like a whole new situation lol bt I no how i was raised so i try to use some of that as well as what u feel is right n there is no perfect parent all we can do is try !!!!!!

  17. What Amanda said was so key! I need to see this full episode to see if they elaborated on her statement or not! If not I hope they understand that taking an assessment on yourself before having children (since we are using this example) to determine your mental standing is key. She’s basically saying that when you know yourself and have truly aligned with your truth you can live life a new way. Simply just live. If you truly take the time to understand who you are, not who you think you are or who others think you are, when you examine the light and the dark and have achieved a healthy balance, you are now living as your true authentic self. You therefore always make the right decision because you’re intuition is guiding you, this god like presence has now consumed you. Once you attain this you understand your role as a parent is to simply assist in raising this soul in the world, not to project yourself onto your child but to raise them in an environment (community) that allows the child to grow in freedom, responsibility, danger and in challenges. Not make them carbon copies of yourself. Your child already has a mission just assist them in the best way possible. And like OSHO says “almost all parents, no matter their religious or political back grounds commit a grave mistake by trying to make their children a carbon copy of themselves.”

  20. Yes every child is different the only thing that is consistent in all kids is making you feel down every fucking minute , making you feel you are not good Mother till you die NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO , NO MATTER HOW PRIORITY YOU GIVE THEM! Period!! Deal with it!

  21. I am a mom of twins. They had booth has RSV. My son had it for a week then my daughter got it the week after. I was in Children's hospital of Philadelphia for two weeks. That was definitely a scary time for me. Ps. they are my only children. I got a two for one as a first time mom. 🥰🥰🥰

  22. After raising 2 children the hardest years are definitely the teen to young adult years. Babies lol eh that’s easy 😂😂lol jk. I love being a mother and thank God for the opportunity. No matter how much you prepare there’s really no hand book ESPECIALLY when life throws a hiccup and you end up a single parent raising the opposite gender.

  35. The most important part of being a parent is making your child feel seen for who they are, not who you want them to be. You're responsible for turning on their "mirror neurons", meaning however you treat them is how they will treat themselves. If you're hard on or critical of your kids, they will loathe themselves, for example. Whatever they do, just remember that they're kids and their brains are vastly underdeveloped. They don't have the ability to sort through what is useful information and what is not. They absorb and internalize everything, good or bad.

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