
آیلین تیمینز ، دکتری مأموریت دارد که چراغ زنان را روشن کند که چگونه می توانند خود را ببخشند. چطور؟ با به اشتراک گذاشتن داستان خود با زنان ، اولویت بخشش را به عنوان راهی برای زندگی با عشق به خود ، سلامتی و شادی برای زندگی یک زندگی پر از تحقق نور در اولویت قرار می دهد. آیلین نویسنده ، هنرمند ، استاد ، مربی زندگی ، سازنده هزارتوی و عضو هیئت مدیره است. او بنیانگذار Aingilin ، LLC (به معنای فرشته کمی به زبان گلی) ، و زندگی با آثاری از مارشال گلدسمیت زندگی می کند: "اگر درها را برای مردم باز نمی کنید ، آنها را می بندید!" مدیر اجرایی جهانی منابع انسانی به مدت هفده سال برای نوآوری خلاقانه ، حل چالش های تجاری و هدایت مدیریت استعداد جهانی برای شرکت های موجود در فضای فنی ، مالی و غیرانتفاعی. آیلن در هیئت مدیره دوستان دوستان پنتیس ، در بیمارستان یادبود شمال غربی خدمت می کند. وی دارای مدرک دکترا ، مدیریت بازرگانی و سازمانی و کارشناسی ارشد در توسعه سازمانی است. این گفتگو در یک رویداد TEDx با استفاده از قالب کنفرانس TED اما بطور مستقل توسط یک جامعه محلی ترتیب داده شد. بیشتر بدانید در.
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U are a light in a dark world. Thank u so very much u beautiful soul and woman.
Even if she went to see her mother once her mother is in a coma, Mother is unconscious, the mother highly likely not be able to feel her presence. She beat herself up because the grief of mother died,Not because she's wrong. She needs to blame something for her mother died, So she can find a justice for the death. It's easy to see as an outsider. I don't think I can forgive myself for the mistake I made.
Powerful message! I needed this! 🙏🏼
Awesome talk! Important issue! If we can forgive others we must learn to forgive self. None are perfect. We make mistakes daily. I forgive myself for past present and future mistakes. I am growing daily and have so much more to learn. Be at peace! Light and love to all who read my post!
The problem is, you can't REALLY forgive yourself until somebody else enables you to. you can try to forgive yourself all you want but if there is no one there to witness you forgiving yourself then it basically didn't happen.
How does self forgiveness help the person you hurt
Can’t forgive myself yet I hope one day I can bc I can’t take this anymore
Thank you. Awesome speech.
May we all succeed in forgiving ourself.
May God bless everyone who's reading this 🙂
I can't forgive myself
I will LET GO of my past and the mistakes I made, then! It’s behind me.
My feeling of guilt, shame and loss is now all-consuming and ruining my life. I want out. I want to die.
Some people do not deserve to be forgiven.
Some things are so universally despised, that to forgive yourself is to betray yourself.
Sometimes all you can do is repent.
Yada, yada. And they lived happily ever after… I'm sorry folks but that's not the way the cookie crumbles. Of course you are perfectly free to listen to and believe in anyone saying convenient things that sound sweet to your self absorbed ears but honestly there is no such thing as self-forgiveness. In fact it contradicts the very definition of the word "forgiveness". "Forgiveness" as the etymology of the word suggests is something you give forth. Therefore is something that somebody, other than yourself of course, can offer you. In every religion there's forgiveness following a wrongdoing or in Christian terminology a "sin". If you're a religious person you do everything in accordance to your belief to make sure that you receive forgiveness from God in this life and most importantly in the after life. If you're not that religious like myself, you got to grow a pair and do everything in your power to correct the bull$hit you've done upon someone as much as you can. If you are too shy, or too selfish to actually invest energy and time in reversing your wrongdoings then pardon me but you don't deserve "forgiveness". Forgiveness requires humility. You might be ignored or hated by the person/people you hurt but that's the only way you can receive forgiveness and finally redemption from the thought that you've harmed someone. And nobody said it's an easy path on the contrary the path to forgiveness is long and dark as dark as the path of hurt and sorrow experienced by your victim. Forgiving one's self without even trying to soothe the pain you have caused is the most selfish, vile and nonsensical thing I've ever heard of.
Thanks eileen for sharing your journey
Thank you so much
A very wise woman once gave me some great advice
I forgive myself for not learning to these tests.
That's a medicine we all need.
Thank you so much, you beautiful soul!
May Allah Blessings be upon you thanks for the Advice sister
what if you have kids by that "past"
She's sweet.
I have so much regret, I’ve harmed the people closest to me and
It’s killing me…, is there hope for redemption? I wish I could take all that pain away from them but I can’t now, so how can I live with myself
The BEST way to live is not to care about anyone in that way if someone dies cheats leaves hates or back stabs you can think whatever and move forward…